Last week Dagmar talked about fear or love.
How is it with you now? Doesn’t anyone want you anymore anyway? Love? Development for you?
Where do you still act out of fear and how could that look like if you act in love?
Do you take responsibility for it now? Are you sending out love?
Well, on that note, welcome to the Emotional Connectivity Podcast from the Talent Management Academy.
Listen to who’s talking. What does that mean? I am talking to myself or the other person, who else!
Today I want to talk to you about roles that can be taken in conversations, like this:
“Oh please, could you not do me that favor… wink, wink.
I’ll have this report on my desk by 1:00pm, is that clear?
But I’m leaving now and I don’t care what anybody else is doing, I’m not going along with it.
I don’t want to see that again, or there will be consequences for you.”
Did you hear the roles? Where is the child here, conformed or rebellious.
Oh please…. or I’m leaving now I don’t care.
Did you hear the parents? Until 1pm… and I don’t want to see that anymore….
Do you know this and how is it when adults talk at eye level? How does that sound.
Observe yourself and others and find out which role others take and when you are taking these roles.
Then consciously do something different. Cross the conversation and the role and react as adults.
Thanks for the tip, I will hand in the report by 1 pm at the latest. And thank you for the reminder.
Surely, you can find adult responses for the other examples and the examples in your own life, as well.
You are right as you are! Now you can observe yourself and the others and even better, you can react more consciously.
Have fun in the outside world with it and observe until next week. Best wishes from us, the Talent Management Academy
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